You see your head is where all your thinking takes place, all the analysis paralysis that many of you engage in on a daily basis is a function of your thinking mind running on and on and on in an unconscious context of fear. And often without much consistent direction or conscious input from you.
You can release yourself from the tyranny of your fearful thinking by choosing to remember that you are not your mind, or your thoughts or your feelings or your body or any of your stuff. You are magnificent, creative, loving being and thinking and feeling are things you do. If you are the one doing those things then you can do something else if you choose.
And there’s the rub. What to choose? What’s the right choice? And where do you look to find your own answers?
Simple. You go within.
Stop for a moment … close your eyes and breathe … Notice where your attention is located and bring it back to your breath and your body sitting in your chair … notice what’s going on inside and outside you … observe without getting involved in the mind chatter that is occurring … notice what you are feeling … in your body … and emotionally … breathe and listen … sit and breathe without needing to avoid anything, or make anything happen … focus on your breath …
Once you are in a state of being present in your body, in this moment, right here, right now, the whole of who you are is available to respond to whatever is present. It’s only ever one moment of now.
So when you find yourself stuck in your fearful, anxious, distracted thinking, stop and breathe. And mind your head!