The Change Room – Episode 28: If Something Doesn’t Change, The Truth Hasn’t Been Told

The Change Room – Episode 28: If Something Doesn’t Change, The Truth Hasn’t Been Told

Join me and the fabulous Suzy Jacobs on The Change Room Podcast.

It can be very frustrating when things don’t go your way despite all the changes you make. But nothing will change, no matter how many times you seem to change it, if you don’t tell the whole truth.

In this episode, we cover:

  • Why this distinction is the ultimate responsibility that requires massive honesty.
  • How this relates to the distinction of “I get to choose and create the whole of my reality”.
  • Lorna’s experience of this distinction, how she overcame it and how she is dealing with it now.
  • Being in charge of the distinction rather than getting rid of it.
  • How the distinction applies to running your business.

#Thrival Tips for your #Thrival Kit

  • If you want something to change, tell the truth and keep telling the truth until it does.
  • You will recognise you’ve told the whole truth when the energy shifts, and it will when you tell the whole truth.
  • Be patient and gentle with yourself. It’s not a race. Be here now and just tell the truth.

The Change Room Podcast

with Suzy Jacobs

The Change Room – Episode 15: Fear

The Change Room – Episode 15: Fear

Join me and the fabulous Suzy Jacobs on The Change Room Podcast.

Having discussed the distinction ‘Judgement’ last episode, today Suzy and I look at the big one – Fear.

When we talk fear, most of us imagine the big fears in life – fear of dying, public speaking, skydiving, leaving a job to chase a dream, but fear is more insidious and pervasive than that.

In this episode we cover:

  • How fear shows up in our life.
  • The context of fear is not the same as the feeling of fear.
  • That feeling scared and operating out of fear are not the same thing.
  • Old vs new paradigm – Love vs Fear.
  • Any restrictions you place in your life is a sign of fear impacting your decision making.
  • Finding your voice and practicing it every day.
  • The importance of showing up and speaking your truth in all moments, no matter how small.
  • Asking yourself – what choices would I make if I had no fear?

#Thrival Tips for your #Thrival Kit

  • Be aware of, and acknowledge, if your choices are coming from a place of love or fear.
  • Remember that fear is an illusion.
  • Make friends with your ego mind.
  • Choose to be conscious of all the ways fear shows up.
  • Ask yourself – what would love do?

The Change Room Podcast

with Suzy Jacobs

Change Yourself

Change Yourself

If you want to change anything … start with yourself.

A simple yet powerful frame of reference is always, always, always, the self first … then everything and anything else.

Yet the temptation of the ego-mind ruled paradigm of fear is to jump immediately into judgement and critical analysis of whatever is happening. This is quickly followed by endless thinking loops seeking to figure out how best to get them or it to change. It’s tiring and for the most part, a fruitless endeavour that does not (and will never) deliver what you seek.

As cause of your whole reality, you get to choose where to put your attention and what to focus on. Whatever is happening is out of the choices you have been making, some are deeply unconscious and others, quite deliberate, and always you are the one who is choosing whatever is occurring, the whole of whatever is happening, the all.

Here’s the kicker: Acceptance of yourself as loving valuable creator and the whole of your reality is key which means abandoning judgement about yourself and everything and everyone else. So be aware, when you choose this path, your ego-mind will fight hard to enrol you once again in managing, protecting and defending from fear. All you need to do is remember WHO you are – perfect love –  and not agree with the voice of fear.

When you willingly engage from the paradigm of love in acting as cause and accepting that whatever is happening is simply a reflection of you and your choices to date, you become more conscious of the whole and thus have more awareness about how to respond i.e. what choices to make next … from love.

Love Lorna

Be the change you wish to see in the world.

Gandhi

You’re Not Ready

You’re Not Ready

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Wanting to be ready to change is not the same as being ready. Watch my video and you might realise that “you’re not ready until you’re ready!”

Why Won’t You Change?

Why Won’t You Change?

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I spent a lot of my younger years blaming other people for my life but the only common denominator in every single scenario where I am blaming is me! Watch my video, look inside first and decide if you want to change yourself and experience something quite miraculous.

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