The Change Room – Episode 26: The Purpose of Indecision

The Change Room – Episode 26: The Purpose of Indecision

Join me and the fabulous Suzy Jacobs on The Change Room Podcast.

Faced with a big or even small decision we often find ourselves getting uncomfortable, but it’s part of the process and serves an important purpose.

In this episode we distill the purpose of indecision and cover:

  • The outcomes from creating the space of ‘not knowing yet’.
  • The critical role that indecision plays in creating our reality.
  • Two scenarios of indecision.
  • How ‘not knowing something’ impacts the decision-making process.
  • How making mistakes help us find our unshakeable truth.

#Thrival Tips for your #Thrival Kit

  • Be willing to sit in the discomfort of indecision.
  • When you feel stuck find out if it’s simply
    a) fear of choosing what you know you want,
    or b) that you actually need more information?
  • Indecision is showing you there’s something you do not know, the knowing of which will change everything.

The Change Room Podcast

with Suzy Jacobs

Resolve To Be On Purpose

Resolve To Be On Purpose

What is the value of you?

If you are tempted to answer this question by first running through a list of all your achievements and judging their value … think again.

The starting place for giving yourself the power to consciously create your life as you want is to look at your current way of valuing yourself and what you do.

There are two distinct meanings for the word value:

  1. Precise meaning or significance – intrinsic
  2. The desirability of a thing often in respect of its usefulness or exchangeability – relative

Obviously, while you confuse the two meanings of the word value, you remain unclear about your own intrinsic value and you remain confused about who you are and what you can do.

As long as you judge yourself on the basis of relative worth when compared to others, and stay focused on proving you are good/right rather than capable … you don’t have time for much else, it becomes a relentless circle and nothing changes.

If on the other hand, you value yourself for your capacity to BE who you are and choose what you want to DO, then you are free to choose again … and again.

So let go of the good enough stuff, the right/wrong, the good/bad and simply let yourself acknowledge the intrinsic value of who you are AND what you have done which has resulted in whatever is happening. Let go of diverting into explanations and justifications and simply tell the truth about the whole of your reality including acknowledging the value.

As long as you devalue yourself by saying you are not as good or as capable as someone else, because your exchange rate is not seen to be as high, you assume that your ability to create your life as you want it to be is also of limited possibility and value. This is simply not so.

You will discover this for yourself when you are willing to accept that the value of you is that you are YOU … powerful creative being able to choose. When you acknowledge the whole of what is so including that the whole of what you have created has value and take responsibility for it, then you can create anything you can think of.

Love Lorna

When you stay on purpose and you refuse to be discouraged by fear,
you align with the infinite self, in which all possibilities exist.

Dr Wayne W. Dyer

What’s Your Real Purpose?

What’s Your Real Purpose?

The short answer is: Nothing … well nothing in particular!

As long as you seek answers to such questions from the point of view of what you think you should be doing, doing, doing … you will never find out. When you ponder the various forms of self-expression, occupation or vocation on offer, searching earnestly and diligently for the “right” something to do … you will never find out. If you think you have some “special and unique” reason for being here and if only you knew what it was then everything would be ok … you will never find out …

Your reason for being here is exactly the same as everyone and anyone else. Your purpose and mine are the same and we each have complete freedom to choose HOW we will realise it and actualise it.

In order to do that, you need to accept that who you are is magnificent, powerful, lovable and valuable and that what you do doesn’t really matter. The value of you is that you are YOU, doing whatever you do. The quality of your experience and impact is about who you are being in the matter and not what you are doing. And when you choose to focus on being the most magnificent you that you can be in any moment, what you do takes on a whole new meaning. Rather than seeking validation solely through other people liking or approving of what you do, you become aware that being yourself – loving, open, honest and responsible – is what makes what you do so powerful and effective. It also means you know you are free to choose to do whatever you desire and not what you think you “should be doing to be ok”.

When you fully accept that Who You Are is perfect love – unchangeable, inviolable and constant – no matter what you do, you are free to do whatever you choose!

Love Lorna

The purpose of life is to create your Self anew, in the next grandest version of the greatest vision ever you held about Who You Are. It is to announce and become, express and fulfill, experience and know your true Self.

Neale Donald Walsch

Why Are You Here?

Why Are You Here?

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What is your purpose in being here? Who are you here to be? In my video I look at the fact that what you do doesn’t matter. Be who you are and you’ll do whatever you’re here to do!

Context Rules

Context Rules

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Context gives meaning to content and is the frame within which all the content shows up. Get clear about the context you want to live your life out of then the content becomes so much easier.

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